Hey sweets,
I am a 21yr old female who was pregnant and was told there were signs that I had a small cyst like growth, I was told then by the nurse that due to me being early in the pregnancy they were unsure exactly how the cyst would deteriorate;
I was told that it could possibly be because my body was getting ready for the pregnancy or it could be a result of the abortion I had before falling pregnant; however I did terminate the pregnancy and the cyst like figure also went along with it, but I do strongly suggest that you get a second opion from you're GP;
Secondly I would like to briefly say that I noticed you wasn' to happy about the pregnancy and the choice of partner your daughter has chosen, with this in mind you may have suggested she have an abortion;
I strongly advise that you speak with you're daughter regarding this, baby's and being a mother is one of the hardest things in life and not many people can cope with the responsibility;
But I do feel that you should listen to you're daughter's veiws carefully as I have first hand experiance of knowing what it feels like to be pressured into having an abortion;
Abortions are not nice things no matter how they are done and no one can prepair you for the extreme pain and loss you feel afterwards. The wave of emotions that come over you are over whelmeing and can mess up the rest of you're life.
I am currently living proof of what life is like when you let others influance your descisions and you do all to please others, please talk with you're daughter as you may find the having the baby maybe slightly "easier" than to have an abortion;
I hope this was of some help to you;
Xx


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