When a guy cheats on his wife, the girl he does it with is called his mistress; what is the guy to the mistress? Do you know what I mean?
A buttcrack, a cheater, a loser, an adulterous, an as*hole, a womanizer....take your pick.
He is simply her partner. There is no specific term I am aware of for what you seek. Society would refer to him as a philanderer, but the mistress would not.
He is a Whore master. They may call the other girl a mistress, but it is a polite way of saying she is a S*** and a Wh***. If he gets caught screwing around he will also be divorced. Cheating on your wife is a sign of immaturity and insecurity. The guy thinks by cheating he can prove he's a man. If he thinks that way he already isn't much of a man.
"a man who will soon pay support".
In a society where men are in charge they call him a Man. If you are a woman who owns her own and is having an affair with him you would call him a Boy Toy.
To the mistress? Her "sugar daddy"or her "sex toy". A mistress, usually, doesn't have any "philosophical or spiritual" word for the man she is screwing, nor could she care less for his wife and kids.
you sound like you're the mistress.. that makes him an *&$hole
I know what you mean. Hmmm...
From the mistress' standpoint, if he's cheating with her, she may have some feelings for him so she may call him her lover or her baby or her man.
Since he wrecked his home when he stepped out, HE should be the one called a homewrecker instead of the mistress.