Can someone give me really legit tips to overcome shyness when around a girl. Can you help me become more self-confident.
I really need that to become successful in life.
There are no tips, you have to simply go up and do it. Even if you stand there and lok like a complete retard, u will do better the next time.
Just look at pick up artists and how they do it (not movies, but the real thing on videos of actual pickup artists) and also look up some tips.
Then watch how ur friends do it and stuff, if u have any really smooth friends.
Then just go out alone one day, where its ppl u dont know at all, and start random convos! Its best to start with a question, remember- u dont wanna show INTEREST in the girl until she shows it in u! Its ok to be fun, friendly, outgoing, etc. and stuff, but dont show actual sexual interest.
Im not going to go into that "Just be yourself" stuff, but just act strong, emotionally and mentally. If you act nervous, it will be awkward to be around you. Lead into conversations about your favorite movie or a really cool song.... and just be confident.
To overcome shyness around girls, you can try a few of the following tips:
1. Dress to impress. If you dress with some effort, you'll feel more confident
2. Have some questions in your mind ready. You can write this on a piece of paper so you have it handy when the times comes.
3. Make sure you give eye contact and don't start looking around. If you start looking around it will impress that you are not interested in talking to the girl you are with.
4. Remember girls are humans too. The more you practice, the better you will become in talking to girls.
Hope that helps you.