The spark is gone. Now when she comes over on Thursdays it's like she is going thru the motions.
How do I ask her what is going on here?
Just ask her if she still loves her husband. But be ready, she most likely will not leave him.
Just be honest.. it might hurt in the end, but honesty is always the best policy. There is no sense in carrying something out, if its just pretending.. Pull her aside, and talk her thru it. Step by step.. ask her to put enough faith in you to believe that you will be there for her regardless her answer. Whats the worst she can say? People's heart gets broken everyday, and believe it or not, no one has ever died from a broken heart.. but keep faith that everything happens for a reason. Good luck to you.
Gross. If she's banging you, she obviously doesn't want to be with him.
And if she didn't like you anymore, then she would just stop coming over. She owes you nothing.
AND - I love how people are so retarded. You do realize if this was a woman asking the same Q, people would be calling her a whoooore, and a homewrecker.
If she's hooking up with you, I doubt she loves her husband.
I mean, if she's hooking up with YOU, I'm not sure she can love ANYONE.
Certainly, she must loathe herself!
Ask her to keep the anal sex for you alone. If you find her anus more loose the next Thursday, then you will know she still loves her husband.