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    Level 7 - I know you and your Friends cyryl's Avatar
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    How does a guy feel if they always start the convo?

    How so guys feel if they always have to start the conversation in a relationship?

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    Level 15 - A Legend daisy's Avatar
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    stressed haha

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    Guys do like to have to start the Convo because it makes them feel as if the girl didn't like them because she will never start the Convo with them. Eventually guys give up

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    Level 7 - I know you and your Friends wwang's Avatar
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    Like the girl dont care... Im talkin to a girl right now that i ALWAYS have to call or text first, and im about through with her

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    they feel unappreciated

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    Well mine is a personal account.

    If you're talking about texting... Well for the first couple of months it was alright since most girls (including my girlfriend) feel that the guy has to "initiate", and I didn't really mind. However, there comes a point where those silly stereotypical traits must be ignored because if you want things to last you can't rely on those trivial conventional images.
    I got annoyed because I was always the one starting the conversation and it felt like she wasn't really making an effort to communicate, so I began to ask myself questions like:"If I stop starting the conversations, does that mean to say she won't bother talking to me?"
    or..."Am I annoying her by constantly starting random conversations with her [since she never texts/calls me first]?"

    To answer your question, guys [like me] feel pretty annoyed and unappreciated if we ALWAYS have to start conversations.

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