Thread: How do I ask my best friend out without ruining our friendship?

Me and him have been friends for like 3 years now, and I don't want him to think I'm weird or anything.

Flirt lol

i dont think you can.
if you ask and he says yes the friendship is ruined and a relationship begins
its a whole new ball game
if you ask him and he says no
ur little heart will crushed and you'll feel like u were rejected because he doesn't think you are good enough
honestly if HE hasn't asked YOU out by now.
i dont think he sees you like that. :/

Its a gamble.

i would evaluate your friendship with him and consider the good and bad. Like if things didn't work out. To love is to risk...

best of luck

Flirt with him and see where it goes. You'll never know if you don't try, right?

just ask if he wants to go to tim hortons or country style together for lunch
act as if it's not a date

What I have told m friends to do is, day to him you want o take thongs to a new level of friendship but instead of being friends you are boyfriend/ girlfriend. Hope this helps!

You might really like him-but think about this:

If you really liked him and cared about him would you risk ruining your friendship?

See that, hmm?

from my personal life, i dont know if you can, i have been freinds with my friend jacklyn since we were 5 (im 17 now) we have liked each other for many years on and off, she was at my house and we kissed, nothing like a make out just a lil kiss, that changed everything between us, kinda awkward kinda not, so trying to stand out to your significant other without being awkward is tough, now for ruining your relationship i dont thingk there is a way to know without trying

Tell him before you ask that you dont want what youre about to say to ruin your friendship. And if he says he doesnt like you then tell him to forget it and if he does.. It coukd end very well