Thread: How can I get my girlfriend to stop nagging me?

I work 9 hours per day 5 days a week and sometimes I have to work weekends aswell
and my girlfriend still says that I don't do my share of house work.
She doesn't work at all, she only has our 1 1/2 year old child to look after.

I sometimes do house work but not often, but she expect we do equal.
I work hard and all she has to do is care for a kid.

Is it fair she do most of the housework?

Having an almost two year old kid is a hell of a lot harder than it sounds. Why don't you switch places with her for a day. Than you'll understand why she wants to do equal housework. Having that young of a kid is like having four jobs dude.

Having to work that much must be really tiring, but looking after your kid must be tiring too. Both of you must get stressed and tired and the likely hood is she just ends up getting exasperated.
I don't really know what is fair..but just because you go out of the house doesn't mean she's not busy just as many hours as well. Housework is hugely annoying, but it has to done.. I think the best thing to do is to try and work together. When you come home look on the housework as just another hour in your work, do it and get it out the way. Once its done you can relax and stop working for a while.
Sometimes I find the best thing to do it with nagging is do it before they start. One day just surprise her my doing some of the housework without her having to ask you first. That way she'll be pleased with you etc.
I hope at least some of my babbling is useful.